Live it Right

Life is about making Something out of Nothing at all. If you're able to do that, you're able to do Everything.

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Life is like a flower, painted to perfection, yet at the end it wilts, fragile as it is, only the stem left unbroken.

Fallen Leaves

Like the autumn leaves, we fall at times, only to find ourselves blown away by the wind, and thus we reach yet another place.

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Archive for 04.2009

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+交叉路口[Crossroad]...

+有好几夜明明很累了, 可是躺下去却想起了一些东西...
+发现, 对男生似乎产生了恐惧感...
+除了被例为真心朋友以外的, 我都会怀疑他们是真是假...
+一想到, 我就很害怕...
+很害怕再去认识新的朋友, 不敢对他们太好, 靠得太近...
+也很怕他们对我好, 一对我好, 我就用冷漠的态度回复...
+我的心, 此时此刻, 真的不想再去触碰爱情这个东西了...
+那天朋友问我, "你会很渴望爱情吗?"
+我说, "不会了, 只要知道身边都会有人愿意陪伴, 愿意听你诉苦, 给你一个能依靠的肩膀, 那不是更重要吗?"
+她回我说..."其实, 我是个很渴望爱情的女生, 希望有人疼, 有人陪伴, 只是, 渐渐的对爱情失去了信心, 所以才会这么说的..."
+她还说, "暧昧这个东西, 还是等熟了再搞吧..."
+哈哈, 听到这句话, 我整个人kick到~我回她说, "成熟的人是不会搞暧昧的..."
+就像贤说过, 人在不同的阶段, 对爱情的看法也会随着改变...
+所以就算是在一起十年的少男少女也未必能走到婚礼的那天...
+还记得一句, "爱情来时像一阵风, 怎么挡也挡不住; 爱情走时也像一阵风, 怎么留都留不下..."
+这句话一点都没错, 可是我不会去想这么多了, 一切还是随缘吧...
+所谓有缘, 也不一定有份...
+比起无份, 无缘不是更好吗?...
+至少那是确确实实陌生的陌生人[Complete Stranger], 而不是最熟悉的陌生人[Perfect Stranger]...
+可是对一些人来说, 有缘相遇已经是一种祝福了...
+所以说, 爱情都是矛盾的...一切都看你怎么去想, 怎么去面对, 怎么去接受...
+有缘千里来相遇, 无缘近邻不相视...
+缘份是命中注定的, 而命是自己去改造的...
+If God is the Director, then we are the Script Writers...
+就算不能如你所愿, 但至少, 努力过了, 就不会后悔...
+比起渴望一个美好的结局[Happy Ending],为什么不试着制造一个美好的开始[Happy Beginning]?

"When a story ends, a new chapter unfolds..."

珊---<@

+Life is a crossroad, standing in the middle is more 
difficult than deciding where you are heading towards...

+也许我还没办法坦然的去面对他...
+总是害怕会再次碰见他...
+可是我知道, 我和他, 谁也没有错...
+只是人生是个交叉路口...
+他选择了回头, 而我选择了另一个方向...
+继续找寻属于我自己的幸福...

"Life holds no end; Death is just another beginning..."

XOXO, JANE...<3

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+Heart Within Love[愛在心里]...

+Love is beyond all words...

+The base of love is friendship[爱], the center of love is heart[愛]...that's wher it all begins...according 2 the chinese characters anyway, =)

+Read Galaxie about Natasha Richardson, act wept, I remember her as the actress of Parent Trap, it is indeed, a true loss to the media world, n the whole world mourns 4 her...

+Then, I wept again, this time, even more uncontrollable, was reading The Star 2 about Tee Hui Yi, u noe? The girl that went thru 2 heart transplants, it's been 18 months since her surgery, time flies doesn't it? I barely even realize, I duno y, when I wept, n stop, then I wept again, as I continue reading, the heart it hurts, n the tears juz kept flowing down, now u noe y I dun like reading newspaper? Yea, coz I cry reading it, duh...

+N there's one excerpt that caught my eyes, that the doctor told her parents, dun expect her 2 be the same, n true enuf, she has changed into a different person, she's more temperamental compared 2 bfor, well, I guess it's true wot they say, bcoz she bears the heart of another, she's act 2 person in one, the heart & the brain, I alwiz blv that the heart remembers better than the brain, so however u are, the heart will be like that, n when it's transferred, it stays that way...so it's rly scary in a way, knowing ur act no longer belongs 2 urself...well, but she sure is lucky 2 be able 2 live, life is a blessing...^^

"The heart is our soul, to lose our heart, is to lose our soul..."

XOXO, JANE...<3

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+Can You Feel Your Heart In Your Dream?[梦里感觉]...


+Had a dream laz nite, man, is that an odd dream...act dreamt of sum1 that I havent met 4 ages, how long is that? Let's c...it's been 2 years, n I dun thk I can recognise if I happen 2 bump into him, juz that, I wonder y I dreamt about him, n even weirder, when he's in my dream, but I dun get 2 c him, the kind wher a character is in the movie, that he is being brought up, but he nvr appears, yea, that kind...

+N hmm, who I dreamt of? I dreamt of his lil bro, which is even weirder, as far as I'm concern, he doesn't even hev one, duh, n it's rly funny, that's y I can remember it, though it's been a couple hours since I woke up, but then again, I remember his bro sitting right next to me, he was in a very serious mode, n if i'm not wrong, he was suppose 2 be 16...meaning 3 years younger than me, duno wot were we doin bfor, but I do remember him telling me wot afterwards, he asked me y din I answer his bro's call? Ever since I left, his bro has been trying 2 look me up, day & night he calls, then I told him, I nvr had a single call from his bro, n ask wot is he saying? He was skeptical & was still a face that isn't fond of me, yea, that kinda expression, he says his bro kept crying all d time, n so so, wth, then nvm, I ask him so how is he doing now? His answer rly bomb me man, he says,"He's married"...I was like, "Huh?"...at dis age?? Wot the??

+N the weird thg is that, in my dream, I was act hevin a crush on dis boy that obviously hev a bad impression of me, n dislikes me v much, mind u, in my dream, he doesn't even exist in real life, lol...that is d weird part, when u act feel sth in ur heart in ur dream...4got most of it ad, then I woke up I guess...zzz...weird...a younger boy har? I wonder if I'll ever fall 4 sum1 younger..kaka...dun mind act, y do most girls mind? The answer is obvious isn't it? They simply dun wanna look older than their guys, haha...

"True love knows no boundaries, no reasons, no doubts..."

XOXO, JANE...<3

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+Happiness Infection[快乐是传染的]...

+Lee Wen & Hao Yang...cute leh...=P

+Went out wif Makko, Ko Chor Seng & Lee Wen 2 MBMB, the fountain site. Brought Hao Yang ther, he is as active as usual, running here n ther, n gosh, does he nvr grew tired...

+Then I went 2 JJ's McD wif Wen, get sum Ice-cream n walk bak ther, giv him eat, let him run, giv him drk, later, KCS tired ad, haha, Yang2's father lor, so he very stress ad, so we balik rumah lor, bcoz his son nvr know how 2 stop running de...haha...

+That's y few of us is alwiz tagging along, then each can take turns chasing him, up & down n evrywhere..kaka...such an active boy, n how old is him again, hmm, shud be around 3, hee...dun remember, about that la, but he's very petite, so small size...so kyutt...kawaii desu neh..=)

+N I'm tired, juz din wan 2 stay at home during the weekends, I rly hate staying at home these days, juz makes me feel empty inside, somehow rather, was moody juz now, wrote a poem, thankfully ther's sum1 2 snap me out of my reverie, n get bak my senses, thou he's nt rly a fren that, how do u put it? That will care 4 u as much as u care 4 him, but he is sum1 that will be ther 4 u whenever u need him, so I'm thankful 4 that, though evryone thks he's simply a casanova, kaka, but act, I find him a very good listener & advisor, alwiz felt better after chatting wif him, perhaps bcoz he doesn't thk much at all, alwiz as carefree, alwiz as jovial...wish I cud do d same...^^...Happiness is infections...

+Thk I'll slp now, exhausted, gear up 2moro...

"We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light..." -Plato. 

P.S.: Here's the poem I wrote today, Perfect Stranger

"Every now & then, you meet a stranger, that either enter your life or leave it then..."

XOXO, JANE...<3

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+Tagged by Cai Hong...=)

+Lotus: The Flower of Life...

Last phone call
+Dad...but if u mean a real convo, sure Xian wot..haha...

Last text msg
+Appreciation msg 2 a lil ghost...xD

Last time cried
+Cry 4 the right reasons? or cry 4 the wrong reasons? Or cry 4 no reasons? Let's c, I cried watching ugly betty on tuesday, Cried 4 the wrong reasons god noes how long, cried 4 the right reasons which is bcoz of myself, is a few weeks bak I thk...



HAVE YOU EVER??
Date someone twice
+Wot does that rly mean? Meaning I go out twice wif them but we're not a couple, no, it alwiz ends wif a single date, then we're PERFECT STRANGER, yea, I'm gud at that, so if u wan 2 break off a friendship, juz brg me on a date, LOL...

Been cheated
+Feel cheated? Yea, by those I cared for, n cherish, my frenz, n those that meant more than frenz at a time, but it doesn't matter now does it? They did not lie, simply bcoz believing itself is  to beLIEve in a lie...how many times I've been lied to, how many times I've lied myself, life like's this, it's made up of Lies & Truth, but rly, it's how u c it as...

Kiss someone and regretted it
+Nvr, coz I nvr did, haha, well, kisses on the cheeks yea, grandma, my parents, but lips, no, so I hev no idea...

Lost someone special
+I won't say lost. For I dun thk I did, for they simply are passerbys in my life, PERFECT STRANGER, that doesn't nid 2 be remembered, nor bid farewell wif, to those that come into my heart as they like, n go as they like, I wish u all the best, 2 not feel the same as I did...n I'm not even being sarcastic...


IN THE PAST MONTH
Fallen out of love
+Love? Infatuation perhaps, how can there be love when two souls aren't attached? You tell me, I know I wud nvr say the 3 letter words again, except 2 my dearest frenz & family, since it pretty much means nth 2 those that doesn't seem 2 hev a idea how my heart feels...

Laughed until you cried
+Hev I? Couldn't remember...

Met someone who change your life
+Every person that I bump into changes my life in a way that mayb juz the slightest, or mayb the lessons of my life that I wud nvr 4get...so thx 4 the memories, even if they're the ones that I try hard 2 4get...

Found out someone was talking about you
+No, but surely there are those that talks about me behind my bak, I dun mind act, as long as it doesn't affects my good name, but then again, anythg juz say directly 2 me, then I'll change, coz I alwiz do that, when I dislike sum1 doin sth, then I'll say it out, instead of keeping 2 myself, then they improves themselves, n I get happier...=)

How many people on your top friends do you know in real life?
+9/10...if u mean msn, coz mostly I knew them online, but has since been thru lots of ups & down wif me, even the ones that is across d oceans...noes me better than the ones right next 2 me...

How many kids do you want to have?
+a set of twins, who doesn't wan that? A boy & a girl, haha, but if ur talking about me, then I'll say, none at all, dun thk i'll be the ideal parent...heh...

Do you have any pets?
+No, as above, I'm irresponsible as callous as I could be..

Do you want to change your name?
+Nope, coz Jane is an ancient name, n I love it very much...

What time did you wake up today?
+6.30am i thk, duno, been laying on the bed refusing 2 get up, my mum has 2 bug me evry 5 minutes..lol..=P...wot can I do? been hevin insomia these days!! Ish...when I'm exhausted like hell, I juz couldn't put myself 2 slp, y can't I juz sing myself a lullaby then? Duh..

What were you doing at midnight last night?
+Trying 2 slp...

Name something you cannot wait for?
+Finish my muet, n start looking at the world wif only my heart instead of my eyes...eyes can be deceiving, do not trust all it sees...

Last time you see your father?
+Few hours ago...lol...weird q?

What’s one thing you wish could change?
+The way my I perceive thgs as...n accept that it's nth wrong 4 me 2 thk the way I do to sum extent, or mayb change the way I thk 4 the better...

Have you ever talk to a person named Tom?
+Nvr heard of anyone wif that name...except Tom Cruise ofcoz..lol...

What's getting on your nerves right now?
+The fact that in 8 hours time I'll hev 2 sit 4 my muet test, n I'm still awake, chatting away..lol...

Elementary/primary school?
+Wot is the different eh? no idea...

Middle/secondary school
+Ditto...

Hair color
+Shiny Black, n luvin it the way it is...

Long or short
+Short, n I'll luv 2 kip it this way until d end of the year...

Want kids
+Look bak above...

Want to get married
+I noe I dun wan 2 live by myself when I reach the golden age...being old n cranky, lol...

Career in mind
+Novelist, editor wil be good, but all in all, still, holding on 2 a dream 2 open an ice-cream shop, that takes away all ur worries wif a scoop, n cheer u up...=)


HAVE YOU EVER???
Kiss a stranger
+No way

Lost glasses/contacts
+Dun wear them

Ran away from home
+I'm nt going 2...

Broken someone’s heart
+Got heart broken...

Been arrested
+By whom?

Cried when someone died
+Alwiz will...

Is there any person you want to be with right now?
+My bear2...lol, no one in specific, I juz wan 2 rest 4 now...put my heart on halt...n my brain on forward mode...

Do you believe in God?
+Sum1 will knock my head if I say I do, but I can't say I don't either, it's the same thg wif spirits isn't it? Doesn't mean they doesn't exist juz bcoz u dun c them... 

"There's a reason for everything, always remember to see with your heart instead of your eyes..."

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+下一个真爱 @ Forget-Me-Not...


+Forget-Me-Not: True Love

+小鬼, 耐心的等吧..."她"总会出现的...=)


Xia Yi Ci Zhen Ai - shawn yue

下一次真爱 (国) - 余文乐

穿过了这条寂寞电影街
卖着旧回忆的热闹马路边
我在这里想念着 忘记了我的女孩

没有了你是怎么样的世界
无聊的我坐在冰冷的戏院
银幕上演着明天 爱情却留在昨天

*别哭 就算孤单很厉害
 我打起了勇气 等上天的安排

 我等待下一次的真爱 它一定会来
 要从苦海里面走过来
 今天伤心的我 别让时间淘汰
 也别忘记还有爱*

#我等待下一次的真爱 这样也不坏
 就算现实有一点难捱
 一张你的照片 一段电影对白
 一个人去想一想 那些故事还在#

看见了我的另外一次永远
另一次爱应该有可能实现
虽然不晓得时间 总会有那么一天

REPEAT*##
我的未来会来

"等待下一次真爱, 也许在你转身后就遇见了..."

珊---<@

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+The Golden Age...=)

+Happy Birthday Mum, ur officially a Pentagenarian, =)

+No idea wot 2 say, thought I wanted 2 wish u at midnight act, but then u fall aslp...

+Then I thought I'll give you a hug in the morning, but then I woke up late, that you hev 2 rush me 2 skul...hehe...=p

+Paiseh paiseh, so I juz wished u a hepi bday, u seem surprise thou, hehe, which hmm, I wonder, usually, I dun say it, the 2 simple words, I hev no idea y, dun say it 2 my sis, or my parents, but I guess I ought 2 change my habit of not saying it, at d strike of midnight, ur bday wud hev passed, but then, it's d 2 turtle & tortoise's bday, hehe...小乌龟, 大乌龟[海龟]...miss u both, act ar, I hev a confession 2 make, I kip thinking it's 24th instead of 23rd, eventhou it's juz 1 day after my mum's bday, n haha, I juz realize that my mum's bday falls on Earth Day, n she says her bday is ez 2 remember, bcoz y? 2+2=4...heh, din notice that..=P

+Hmm, well2, bought a tiramisu cake, which doesn't rly taste like tiramisu, hehe, but I guess it's alrite, coz, honestly, I'm nt rly crazy wif tiramisu, it's ok ok 2 me, so yea, then I upgraded the cake, into "Strawberry Tiramisu"...hee...still got a box of strawberries left in the fridge, so I juz cut it into half, n added it 2 the sides n the top...yummy yummy~nvr rly tried fresh blueberries, perhaps I'll buy it next time, or mayb black berries, hehe...

+Well, okla, stop here, thk I'll lay on the bed until 12am now, then wan slp ad, so tired...zzz...nite2, slp tight...

"Time & time again I fall, but you were always there, & I know you'll always be, holding onto me, never letting me down, no matter where or when, you're just like a tattoo carved into my heart, that I simply can't live without..."

XOXO, JANE...<3

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+Every Story Has A Moral That Comes With It...


+White Chrysanthemum: TRUTH...

+Juz finished watching Ugly Betty, damn, I love that show, act cried at d end of it, now I does that alot, zzz, I dun mind my tears flowing down at all, but for all the right reasons, I'm nt gonna cry over sth that ain't worth, it is wot touches the heart that is REAL...

+Every episode the characters juz keeps getting better, n I act stop hating Wilhemina, that used 2 be an evil witch, but humans are humans afterall, sumtimes our heart takes the better of our head...even the strongest will person falls at times...

+I guess, in life, we have to make lots of choices, even if it means hurting one side of it, you can't always have the best of both world, that's y the globe is round, nt literally, but yea well, it juz means u can't stand at north & south at d same time...

+May the better man win, it alwiz says, 2 follow ur heart desires? Or to make the "right" decisions, who r there 2 tell us wot is right & wot is wrong? n wot is black & wot is white? 2 betray ur heart, or 2 be rasional n listen 2 ur brain? The brain & heart, they're like angel & devil, constantly going against one another, but when it aligns, that is where the world is perfect, which hardly exist in this imperfection world...

+Honesty, the best policy? Most of the times, yes it is...=)

"Make a choice that you will not regret..."

XOXO, JANE...<3

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+Thx Rainbow...^^


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+Simply beautiful...

1) Because we can cry when we want to, no need to hide the tears unlike guys that  will not cry infront of others, because of what?? There's nothing wrong 2 just break down and cry, it doesn't make you sissy, thou I do understand the reason they do not cry, what I want 2 say is that, it's OK 2 cry at times...if a guy ever cry because of me, I know, he is someone I shouldn't let go, but that depends rite, if I dun like him, I'll still let him go...=P 

2) Because we get to wear pretty dresses, put on pretty make-ups, hey, ther's nth wrong being vain, thou I stil insist that natural is beauty, but make-up is juz like accessories 2 me, as long as u dun thk of it as ur clothes then it's alrite, afterall, beauty lies in the eye of the beholder...=)

3) Because we have the priviledge to act kyut, kaka, and the pestering power that cums wif it, hehe...=P

4) Because most girls are sensitive and emotional, perhaps way 2 emotional at times, but, being a girl,  we understand better to others need...yea, when u put it that way, still, I noe I need 2 control my emotions, now I'll balance both my heart & head, coz my heart is 2 easily influenced...heh...darn it...

5) Because I dun hev 2 pay 4 a guy, n mostly they pay 4 me?? Haha, waliu, jk la, I'm not that kinda girl, I dun mind paying 4 a guy act, but, they will nvr let me anyway, so yea, still, I'll pay 4 my own unless they call me out n I no money la...*guilty*runs*hides...=P

6) Because I can keep long hair n need not tie it up, guys wif long hair tying up their hair? hmm, well, it's bad enuf if ur long hair looks like a girl, if u tie it up, err...it will totally looks like a girl, thk ther's few exceptional thou...ther alwiz is, isn't it?

7) Because I am born a girl, n proud of it...wot is EGO? is it so important that guys cannot put their face down at times? I noe, it doesn't matter 2 me, that's y I luv being a girl, even if we are considered "weak" at times, even when they say us "emo" at times, so wot? I am Jane, that's me...=)

P.S.: All comments are not directed to anywho in real life, and anything I say is not refered to all but some of all people, or perhaps most...=P...

Passing this award & tag to :
+Evry girl that is proud of herself...=)

"Being proud of yourself is the first step to happiness..."

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+三面夏娃 @ 天堂的星星[Multi-Faces Doll @ Stars Of Heaven]...

+昨天, 又跟他们出去喝茶...

+本来, 还想乖乖待在家, 不出去的...

+可是, 记得星期五, 总是让我沉默...

+所以还是跟他们去了...

+唉, 每次出去都会花钱, 电话钱都还没付呢...

+糟了, 哪里弄来钱, 虽然是有, 可是那个钱我不想碰嘛...

+其实也是ICE钱来的...means In Case of Emergency咯...

+哈哈, 问题是我怕拿那些钱, 等下我没办法贴回去啦...

+昨天又花了几十块, 买棒棒糖, 杂志, 吃的喝的...

+呵呵, 真的是少出微妙...

+我真的是扮演三个不同的角色...

+在外, 在内, 在校各一个样...

+非凡的小女生, 让人难以捉摸我的心吧...

+就像阿叔说的, 笑不代表你就是快乐的, 哭也不代表你就是伤心的...

+我的笑是真是假我不晓得, 我的泪却是最真实的...

+所以我总是不太爱笑...

+可是最近我发觉, 稍为笑一笑, 其实并不是在伪装...

+而是, 让自己好过一点,也让身边的人快乐一些...^^

+所以, 笑一笑, 没什么大不了...=P

+不懂要写什么了, 到此为止吧...

+认识我的人有机会就会见视到我的每一面咯...

+昨天满天空的星星, 还真怀念...

+星星数不尽, 也许有天我会遇到愿意陪我一直数星星的人吧...=)

"天堂的星星, 就算有多遥远, 依然这么的耀眼..."

珊---<@

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+缘分, 可遇不可求[Fate]...

+三个不同的朋友, 三个不同的故事...
+每一个都是我的好朋友, 每一个都是我最在乎的人...
+可是为什么偏偏有情人不能终成眷属呢?
+他们跟我说他们的心事, 我却做不了什么...
+只能默默的支持他们, 希望他们能够早日振作起来...
+有很多事, 不是我们别无选择, 而是我们不肯去做个决定...
+有缘无份, 也只能这样说了...
+如果在一起这么辛苦, 到不如放手让彼此去寻找另外一个幸福...
+爱一个人真的就一定要拥有吗?
+爱情之所以为爱情不就是希望对方快乐, 自己幸福吗?
+没有了信任, 又哪来的爱?
+情为何物? 爱情真的这么重要吗?
+脱离了, 才发现, 爱情不是盲目的...
+只是, 人总是被爱冲昏了头, 去相信那盲目的爱情...
+以为, 那就是幸福快乐的象征...
+默问自己, 值得吗?
+没有说在对的时间遇到错的人, 也没有说在错的时间遇到对的人...
+因为, 缘分是生生世世早已注定的...
+不在乎天长地久, 只在乎曾经拥有...
+这句话, 不是拿来安慰自己, 而是要提醒你...

+爱情没有永远, 永远是遥不可及的, 只有回忆才能证明真爱何在...
+所以, 放手也是一种爱他的方式...
+"爱", 是心的距离永不分离...如果你真的能做到, 那就是真爱, 而不是, 在一起, 却感觉不到对方的爱...同样的, 就算彼此分隔两地, 那也不代表你已失去所爱...把最美好的时刻永留在心里, 那就是爱他的证据...

+有时候, 不是别人不在乎你, 而是你把别人看得太重...
+也不是别人不爱你, 而是他们爱不起...
+我知道, 大家都说我单纯, 说我天真...
+可是, 如果可以, 我真的不想长大, 熟人的世界太过于复杂...
+简简单单就好, 幸福不是必然的, 可是, 只要纯心相信, 就会快乐...
+所以, 单纯就好...=)

"懂得去爱却不懂得放手, 那起初你就不应该懂得去爱..."-云之雨


珊---<@

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+Part III - "勉强", 它不属于幸福[Let It Be]...

+如果你不爱一个人,请放手,好让别人有机会爱她。如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,好让自己有机会爱别人...

+有的东西你再喜欢也不会属於你的,有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的,人生中有许多种爱,但别让爱成为一种伤害。 

+有些缘分是注定要失去的,有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,爱一个人不一定要拥有,但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱他。 

+男人哭了,是因为他真的爱了;女人哭了, 是因为她真的放弃了。 

+如果真诚是一种伤害,我选择谎言;如果谎言是一种伤害,我选则沉默;如果沉默是一种伤害,我选择离开。 

"爱情不应该建立在痛楚和眼泪之间, 不要盲目的去追求爱情, 用心去看那最真实的一面..."

+协给朋友的片段...

+如果失去是苦, 你怕不怕付出... 如果迷乱是苦, 你会不会选择结束... 如果追求是苦, 你会不会选择执迷不悟... 如果分离是苦, 你要向谁倾诉... 好多事情都是后来才看清楚,好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦,然而我已经找不到来时的路 。

+有一种爱,明明是深爱,却说不出来有一种爱,明明想放弃,却无法放弃有一种爱,明知是煎熬,却又躱不开有一种爱,明知无前路心却早已收不回来... 

+决定放弃你的那一刻我哭了,我的眼泪证明了我是真的很爱你。 

+男人的自信来自一个女人对他的崇拜,女人的高傲来自一个男人对她的倾慕。永远不要栽培你爱的男人,你把他栽培的太好,结果只有两个:他从此看不起你或他给人偷了。追求一个人的手法不需要太聪明,但离开的手法必须聪明绝顶 ! 

+为什么我们总是不懂得珍惜眼前人?在未可预知的重逢里,我们以为总会重逢,总会有缘再会,总以为有机会说一声对不起,却从没想过每一次挥手道别,都可能是诀别, 

+也许爱情只是因为寂寞,需要找一个人来爱,即使没有任何结局。 
伤口是别人给与的耻辱,自己坚持的幻觉。

"有一种爱叫做放手, 等一个真正懂得珍惜你的人..."

 

+很多人不需要再见,因为只是路过而已。遗忘就是我们给彼此最好的纪念。 

+爱可以是一瞬间的事情,也可以是一辈子的事情。每个人都可以在不同的时间爱上不同的人。不是谁离开了谁就无法生活,遗忘让我们坚强。 

+人这样的生物,仔细一看,原来是伤痕累累的。是否被爱,每个人有不同的感受。重寻旧梦的代价往往是我们付不起的。人世间的幸福,总会令人好看一点。因为微笑,我才了解爱。

+世事其实都是在它适当的时候降临,只是我们没有适当的心情去迎接它。 

+因为爱他,所以离开他。我喜欢这句话。有些感情如此直接和残酷。容不下任何迂回曲折的温暖。带着温暖的心情离开,要比苍白的真相要好,纯粹的东西死的太快了。  

"一旦'辛苦'超越'幸福', 那么是时候放手了..."

珊---<@

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+Part II - 命中注定[Love Will Find A Way]...

+This is an excerpt that's been circulating around the web, which cannot be truer...

+Which reminds me, Show Luo[罗志祥] once said, "我失去的是一个不爱我的人, 她失去的却是一个深爱她的人..."...ppl might thk I'm consoling myself whenever I say this phrase, but it is wot I blv in, that's wot I say to those heart broken souls anyway, to the ones that still cannot let go..."他的损失比较大, 那你还哭什么?"

此文献给所有得到过所爱却又失去所爱的人;献给从为得到所爱的人;献给因为仍旧爱着,所以选择自欺欺人的人。它是一面镜子,要我们勇敢地面对,勇敢地放弃,勇敢地重新开始。

因为爱过,所以不会成敌人;因为伤过,所以不会做朋友。只能是最熟悉的陌生人。爱过知情重,醉过知酒浓。关于爱的记忆,应该好好收藏,只是今后的幸福,要各自去寻找。

如果,前世的五百次回眸才换来今生的擦肩而过,那想来已经很幸福了——其实,擦肩而过,也是一种很深的缘分。佛说:五百次的回眸才能换来今生的擦肩而过。可以一秒钟遇到一个人,一分钟认识一个人,一个小时喜欢上一个人,一天时间爱上一个人,但是却要用一辈子去忘记一个人。 

当曾经爱你的人不再爱你的时候,无论过去她是否爱过还是后来忘了,又或者是从未爱过,当你无法成为她心里的那个人的时候,她的心不会记得你了。虽然她知道你深爱她,但她宁可选择装作不知道。  

当她不爱你的时候,请不要在你不开心,或者是遇到麻烦而彷徨的时候去打扰她。她那儿绝对不是你此刻应去之处。也许她会在接到你电话的时候,淡淡的安慰你几句,仅此而已。也许你会再想要一点什么,于是说:我们见面吧。而她肯定心有烦躁了。她不爱你的时候,你的爱,你的人,就会显得廉价很多。你占了下风,这就是人的本性。她会说:好,不过现在我有点事情。晚点的时候我跟你联系吧。而你这时千万不要当真,她只是找了个不是很高明的理由来搪塞你。请你不要真的去等,不要骗自己。  

当她不爱你的时候,请不要对她讲你的琐事,也许此刻,你不过是希望彼此更熟悉一些。只是,她却无暇、更没有兴趣去了解你,你的生活,你的过去,你的长处短处与她又何干?即使讲了,她也会很快忘的,就如她忘记你的生日、你的地址和你的电话一样。没有爱,你注定挤不进她的生命,即使你要的那怕只是一个很小很小的角落。  

当她不爱你的时候,请不要在她的面前流眼泪,不要在生病的时候告诉她。她无法给予你照顾和关心,至多是同情一下。请骄傲的你,不要放弃本应该属于你的骄傲。太多的人,在爱的面前失去了太多。连站起来的勇气都没有,何来骄傲?只是,要记得:她爱你,不是她做得好,而是她喜欢做。只有爱你的人,才会真正地去疼惜你,而不仅仅是旁观者的同情、怜悯。  

当她不爱你的时候,你的爱便是她的负担。请不要计算自己的付出,不要希望有什么回报。爱着不爱自己的人,本身便是没有回报的。不要计较对与错,这样会快乐些。要记住,你与她之间的爱,是单方面的,你用心,她无心。所以,也不要怪她。因为也许你也想做得好一些,对你不要那么的冷漠。只是,爱一个人,对一个人好,就是一种本能。对不起,她没有这种本能。  

当她不爱你的时候,请不要失去自信。因为爱一个人,并非她的优秀,而只是一种感觉。她让你有那样的感觉,于是你爱她。同样,她不爱你,你也并非不优秀。优秀,不是爱的理由。看看还有那么多爱自己的人,淡淡的微笑一下,也是一样甜美的。  

当她不爱你的时候,一定要祝福她。有了爱,便不该有恨。爱是美好的,恨却丑陋。何必让生命中最美好的东西化作丑恶呢?也不要觉得不公平。关于离去,她失去的是一个爱她的人,而你失去了一个不爱你的人,却得到了一个重新生活、重新去爱的机会。

请不要去想“永远”。爱没有永远。你虽然此刻深爱,却注定在遥远的某一天也不再爱她。她只是比你早一步到达了这一天。当她不爱你的时候,请轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖,轻柔的凝视凋谢的温柔。  

当她不爱你的时候,亲爱的,请你深深地呼吸,一生的路上,铺满了爱的花蕊,总有那么一朵属于你。花儿虽多,却没有重复的一朵。不是安慰你,而是,这是生生世世早已注定的,相信缘分吧。

爱是一种感觉,不爱也是一种感觉,而往往难以抉择的是心中的感觉到底是爱还是不爱。原来握在手里的,不一定就是你们真正拥有的;你们所拥有的,也不一定就是你们真正铭刻在心的。人生很多时候需要自觉的放弃,因为拥有的时候,你们也许正在失去,而放弃的时候,你们也许又在重新获得。 

明白的人懂得放弃,真情的人懂得牺牲,幸福的人懂得超脱。对不爱自己的人,最需要的是理解、放弃和祝福。过多的自作多情是在乞求对方的施舍。爱与被爱,都是让人幸福的事情。不要让这些变成痛苦。既然你们已经经历了,多年以后,偶尔想起,希望都是美好的回忆。活的自信些,开心些,把最美的微笑留给伤你最深的人,聪明的人知道自己要快乐。 

"失恋的定义是什么?" Lil boy: "失恋的定义就是给你机会再恋..."...haha...xD

珊---<@

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+Part I - Everything Happens For A Reason...

+It's been a day, love my friends so much, now I know if there's one thing, make it 2, that I can't stand losing r my friends & family...

+Sure, I was frustrated, but, I'm not gonna cry, neither am I gonna beg, guys r still guys at the end of the day, perhaps they might thk I'm juz trying 2 make myself look good n make the other look bad, but, we're friends, we don't keep secrets afterall, n I thk they deserves 2 noe wot I've been going thru, instead of keeping it from them n making them worry more about me, coz I noe, how it feels when they dun tell me wot's keeping their mind occupied, I'll get rly tense up when I c them unhappy, so yea, I wudn't keep it from them, they're my friends afterall, my shoulder to cry on, n my pillar of support...

+Went out laz nite, wif a couple of friends, n another couple, lol, yea well, they're nice ppl, n yea, it's 2 bad they hev 2 meet the bad ppl that doesn't appreciate them, hehe, I trust everything happens for a reason. Let's put it this way, if someone couldn't appreciate your love, then they ain't worth ur love anyway. We deserves better, y do I say we? Because those around me seems to hev more difficulty letting go than I do, even after all the trials & hardship, I juz realize that love shud not be based on pain or tears, put it in an economical way, if the rate of return is not worth the risk u take, then y take the risk? It's that simple, it's not a good business deal when u can't even get bak wot u pay for, n even more, when u get bak lesser than u deserved, so, deal or no deal? U dcide for yourself. Love rly isn't evrythg, but love is evrythg when u realize how much love ur being surrounded wif...I noe I'm loved by those around me more than I deserve, now that's a rly good profit I'm making, well, I'm juz putting it as an example, I'm nt rly putting a price on my relationships or their care for me...coz I noe, I couldn't, it's priceless, so y pursue a worthless love, when u already hev a priceless one...^^

+This is for my friends that I care & love for, n for those that cares & loves me unconditionally..."A Shoulder To Cry On by Tommy Page"...unfortunately, I couldn't find the song thou, here's the lyrics, ask me 4 the song if u want it...=)

Life is full of lots of up and downs,
but the distance feels further,
when it's headed for the ground,
and there's nothing more painful,
than to let your feeling take,
you down.

It's so hard to know,
the way you feel inside,
when there's many thoughts,
and feeling that you hide,
but you might feel better,
if you let me walk with you,
by your side,

And when you need,
A shoulder to cry on,
when you need,
a friend to rely on,
and when the whole world is gone,
you won't be alone,
cause i'll be there,
i'll be your shoulder to cry on,
i'll be there,
i'll be yur friend to rely on,
when the whole world is gone,
you won't be alone cause i'll be there,

All of the times,
when everything is wrong,
and you're feeling like,
there's no use going on,
you can't give it up,
i'll help you work it out,
and carry on,

Side by side,
with you till the end,
i'll always be the one to firmly hold your hand,
no matter what there said or done,
our love will always continue on,

Everyone need a shoulder to cry on,
everyone need a friend to rely on,
when the whole world is gone,
you won't be alone,
cause i'll be there,
i'll be your shoulder to cry on,
i'll be there,
i'll be your friend to rely on,
when the whole world is gone 
you won't be alone,
cause i'll be there,
you have my shoulder to cry on,
i'll be there
i'll be the one to rely on,
when the whole world is gone,
you won't be alone,
cause i'll be there,

And when the whole world is gone,
you always have my shoulder to cry on.


"Love doesn't come easy to everyone, it would be easy if everyone comes to love..."

XOXO, JANE...<3

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+真心[True Heart]...


+朋友问我, 如何真心的去喜欢一个人?

+我回答说: "只要往他的快乐去想多过自己的快乐, 因为他的快乐, 就是我的快乐..."..."等待也可以很幸福, 可是, 如果他不是属于我的, 我也会放手让他找寻属于自己的幸福..."..."恋爱从不是单方的, 虽然如此, 喜欢一个人也能单方面的为他快乐..."...真心喜欢一个人就不应该觉得累...

"如果等待能够有结果, 那么, 我真的会用一生来等待..."

珊---<@

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+Half Time @ 幸福是什么?...

+Went 2 play badminton juz now, juz 4 girls, hehe, so tiring, damn, act suppose 2 play for 2 hours, but one slightly sprained her shoulder, no biggy I thk, hehe...n then another one xleh tahan ad, so played 1 n a half hour oni...kaka...xD, they very bad de...T.T...keep on laughing at me, imitate me sumore, haha, bcoz I 2 many pattern ad, hehe, I noe la..yo! Lalala~like this oni fun ma, keke...paiseh la, my pattern damn funny one, =P

+Hmm, yea, all I can thk about is, I wanna eat ice-cream when I got bak home, yea, I did, hehe, peppermint ice-cream~~yipee~~lil sis buy wan, hehe, cannot eat 2 much, haha, next time buy sumore...so so...then I drk xampai apple, hehe, been keeping it in the fridge 4 long, how refreshing~~wait awhile more go pong2...=)

+Okla, I thk that's all, later wanna gambateh, nid 2 study study ad, 1 more month, zzz, less than one month muet test, wth, so FAST?? adui, pengsan man, pengsan, band 5? Impossible la, now I'm trying 2 stay at band 4 at least...

"Impossible is nothing, nothing is impossible..."-hehe, from a fren, call sm[slow motion]

XOXO, JANE...<3

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+今天在学校, 问了我一个朋友一些东西, 关于她的经验, 她的看法, 才发觉, 她是个很懂事的女生, 而且还很坚强, 因为家庭的关系, 没办法不坚强, 她们老是说她爱说大道理, 我终于知道为什么了, 可以看得出来, 她很珍惜她所拥有的, 就算她已失去一些事物, 过去的事她也没有执着...生在福中不知福, 我们老是这样, 没真正去想, 或看他人的不辛, 唉...希望我能振作点吧, 考试越来越靠近了, 真的好怕人...>.<

+我不想要一时的热情, 想要一个真正的恋情, ...她跟我说了一句"只要了解他的心里有你, 只是一心想对你好, 就可以啦, 最重要是要相信对方..."

+我问她说, "冲动是什么?" 她说"有时冲动会带来刺激...只要你可以接受冲动之后的后果...如果是好的当然可以...那如果是坏的你又可以接受吗? 如果可以, 你就可以冲动啦..."...我想我心里有答案了, 只是还没把答案写下来罢了...=)

+有人说: "是幸福选择我们, 还是我们选择幸福? 为了幸福有什么不能试的呢?"

"只要懂得珍惜, 懂得知足, 那就是幸福..."

+珊+

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+Truth In Your Eyes[真实]...


+I won't deny that there's still doubts in my mind, and I thk that u shud noe, that I do trust u, yet at the same time, I can't help but fear if this is rly happening? Juz like wot u said yesterday, is this 4 real? We were merely strangers juz less than a couple of weeks ago...

+Another thg I won't deny is that my feelings for you is real, that it makes me worry even more, perhaps I won't thk as much anymore when we come face to face with each other...

+Even if this is all but a beautiful lie, I won't regret any decisions I'm gonna make, bcoz my heart, it nvr does go wrong, even if in the end thgs might not turn out 2 be the way we want it to...

"I just need to look into your eyes, to know that this is true, and I will show you the same, the truth beneath my eyes..."

P.S.: Follow up poem + Catch Me As I Fall...

XOXO, JANE...<3