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By Sicreci

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关于爱情

大家早上好，今天我要谈关于爱情。

每一个人对爱情的看法都不一样，

不是每一段恋情都一样，

你要知道，感情是因人而异的事。

很多人，很喜欢告诉我说，

“你还没体会过，所以你不明白。”

“等有天你伤了，你就会理解了。”

从他们的口中说出的那些话，

已经有着对爱情一半的悲观了，

乐观的人是不可能说这种话。

因为对乐观的人来说，

“They live in the moment.”

哪一天伤透了，哪一天才来决定，

而我，从不后悔自己做过的决定，

喜欢过的，与爱过的人。

一直怀着悲观的心情，

只会限制自己不全心全意，

因为害怕伤害，害怕疼痛。

我想说的是，

很多人，

总是被身边的人影响，

才会照成一连串的分手戏，

你要知道，关于爱情，

从不允许第三者的出现，

自己的感情，自己做主，

不要因为别人的意见，

别人的过去，别人的经历，

而影响自己的信任。

不管发生什么事，

人的适应能力很强，

总得要学会释怀。

人生说短不短，

说长不长，

爱情，只是一部分，

不要让它占有了你所有的人生。

PS: 也许有天我会受伤害，也许有天我会有同感，但我要提醒自己，不这么想，因为那样只会让我失去人生一半的快乐。凡事以乐观的角度去想，我也许做不到，但我会试着相信。

珊，上。

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By Sicreci

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Body|Language

I learn about Non-Verbal Communication last sem,

Which included this topic: Body Language,

And if you've seen "Lie To Me",

Facial Expressions, Hand Gestures are examples of Body Language.

And I've been trying to find out more about it,

Some people are natural at detecting the Truth & Lies based on your body language.

So far I'm only good at detecting a person's emotion from their eyes,

Eyes do not tell lies, but it usually only works with people I care,

Perhaps because I tend to notice them,

And I just somehow got used to interpreting their emotions.

Did some research, and Smiles is another thing,

A genuine smile usually lasts 0.5 and 4 seconds,

Anything longer than 5 seconds is probably a fake smile,

We do a fake smile all the time,

Ask yourself, how many times you actually fake a smile in front of a camera?

I'm sure everybody did at some time.

Yea well, another tell tale sign is that,

A genuine smile actually involves the movement of 17 muscles,

One of it being the eyes,

That's the reason why my eyes always close when I smile with my teeth,

That's real smile, reason why I always don't show my teeth when I smile,

Otherwise you can't see my eyes, haha.

Another thing I notice I do alot is hand gestures,

Whenever I "Don't know what to do",

You'll be sure to see me scratching my head,

Which I think most people do to,

Some people scratch their chin, ears, or whatsoever, you get my point,

When someone is uneasy, they'll move about,

They can't sit in the same position,

They keep switching,

It's really interesting actually,

If you can find out people's emotion based on their expressions,

But be warned that people who are good at differentiating the truth and lies,

Meaning too good,

Won't be good for their life instead,

Life without mystery is dull.

Anyway, that's all today,

You can tell a lot from body language,

Guys ought to learn some,

It'll help with your girl I'm sure,

Since most girls always say a different thing from what's on their mind,

If you can't read it, too bad for you. =P

-lilrig-

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By Sicreci

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|Coincidence|

Life is full of coincidence, won't you agree?

Somehow I think the law of attraction played a part in this,

I don't know how, I don't know why,

It just happens so.

There are just so many times when we least expect to see someone that we bump into them,

And the times when wow, I know your dad, damn, my mum knows your mum,

And huh, been to my place but I didn't know you then etc.

People who don't know each other might have met countless times without realizing,

When we do know each other it's simply coincidence that we do met.

Well, I don't know about elsewhere, it's probably because Melaka is such a small place,

I grew up frequently bumping into that someone yet never bumping into someone else,

It's like I have friends from primary till secondary,

But you never bump into all of them,

Most of the times, I bump into close friends of mine,

It's always the same person you know?

Gosh, I saw him there yesterday, damn, I saw him here today,

That kinda thing?

It's funny and strange, but I have this idea that two people weren't friends by chance,

It's like you have this "connection" to them,

As I'll like to put it as some sort of thread that ties to people,

Except this applies to the friends,

As for couples, the Japanese say it's the Red Thread.

And well, there's this theory,

That when you thought of seeing that someone,

He would actually appear before you,

This is just something I've accumulated over the years,

Heh, it happens to me on various occasion,

And vise versa, how so?

Well, there's this guy that had a crush on me,

He always seem to be at the place I goes to,

Except, here's the thing,

I never saw him, out of 10 times,

Perhaps there's 1 time I actually realize him,

And other times, he saw me,

How do I know?

Because he told me so.

You see, I guess it works the other way too you know?

That when you don't wanna see that someone,

They won't even appear before you.

And there's another thing,

When you cut off all ties with someone,

You might actually never get the chance to ever meeting them again,

The thread has been cut, and then it's done,

Fate has its way, and it simply keeps both of you apart,

Even if two of you might work at the same place,

Or even stays nearby,

Seriously, I mean?

What are the chances of actually bumping into someone,

Honestly, what are the chances of not bumping into someone?

I think it's really not much, as I would like to put it,

I'll simply say it's coincidence.

Except some part of my heart honestly believe that fate has something to do with it. =P

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By Sicreci

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Personal:Perspective

Dear Diary,

Today, I'm gonna talk about something personal. Something I've known all along. And something that really is due to my own actions.

I never thought people would really talk Bad behind me. Guess I'm that Naive. Well, it's not surprising really, coz whenever my friends get together, that's what they do actually. Human nature har?

Speaking of that, in case you still don't know. I have a habit of openly teasing people, mostly with sarcastic remarks, some of the times it's deemed offensive to them. So I'll understand if they do not think of me highly.

While I know the kind of person I portray to others and how others see me. I couldn't change to fit the image that they think will actually suit me. No, I don't do that, that's something I've learnt over the past years. Never change yourself for anyone else. Change for yourself. And from what I know, people have different understanding about me. Here's a list that I'm sure one of it is how you taught of me.

*A philosophical girl that seems to know so much yet haven't been through that much, seems mature by the outside yet really immature in the inside.
*A friend that never take sides whenever there's arguments between both party. I only support the ones I think is right, as the Chinese says: 帮理不帮亲。
*Always had this blank expression on my face, or simply put it, emo vibes that comes out from me. A girl that doesn't always smile even when she stick a "Smile Always" sticker everywhere.
*A girl that doesn't truly fits to any groups of friends. But rather mix with every kind of them. The fashionistas, the gossipers, the dudes, the chicks, etc.
*The one people find when they have heart aches, but never cross their mind other times. I'm forgettable. Just the same as I'm forgetful.
*Not a partner that's fun to be with, be it group projects or trips. It doesn't really make a difference whether I'm there or not. Most of the time, I'm the left over or extra. Some of the times, because they needed my help.
*A girl that seems pretty close to the guys, sometimes too close that people think wrongly of me.

I wasn't always close to the opposite sex, truth be told. I was never close to guys when I'm in primary, even secondary, I think He changed me actually, even though He's in the Forgotten list. My ex-best friend anyway if you're wondering. Because I got close to him, I started to get close with the rest as well. I just realize that.

Btw, the above, I'm not belittle-ing myself, not at all, why would I? When no one's perfect, neither are you. So before you think so highly of yourself perhaps you should look into yourself to even comment another for the same person you're actually are.

It's funny you know, I know it's true because that's what I do. The fact that when someone point others for their wrongs but they themselves commit it as well. I tend to say to my sis the very same thing my mum say to me half of the times. So before you want to say how a person is, perhaps you should review and check if you're just the same.

Whatever it is. Whatever I do. 我对得起自己良心. I don't purposely create harm or hurt another. Unintentionally it happens sometimes. The things I do I know enough to not create trouble. Even though often there's misunderstandings on the other side, but if at's what they think. Well, so be it.

If you beg to differ, you can always tell me straight at my face, if I accept what you say as the truth, I'll still be friends with you. If what you said is merely one-sided thinking of yours. Then it's fair to say I don't need a friend like you. Yea, I'm like that. If you don't like me, I won't try hard to make you. No one told me I have to like everybody, even though I try to.

Anyway, it reminds me of what my other friend said the other day, about a very close girl friend of mine. I couldn't exactly remember what she said, but a word stood out, it's "Cheap". I couldn't really defend my girl friend at that point. To some extent the facts that my friend laid out about her is true. And for that she thinks she's cheap. But I know better than to ever think of her like that. I never thought of her like that, even though my girl friend think so herself. I even had to convince her that she's really not. Because I know better. I didn't know what to say that will really be the truth and for what she truly is.

It's funny thou, another thing about human nature is that, when someone said something about you. It isn't as bad as when someone said something about someone you care. It makes you want to defend them all the more. You could say the very same thing to the person because you care for them. But hearing it from another person saying them like that. You just had to stand up and try doing something about it. Simply because it's someone you care.

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By Sicreci

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:Phobia:

As you should know, I'm afraid of many things, but nothing so serious to the stage of a phobia. I just want people to be aware that it happens when people are too afraid of something. Or maybe I do have a phobia for just one tiny thing. What's that? Really...

Let's read on shall we?

Herpetophobia is a common specific phobia which consists of fear or aversion to reptiles, commonly lizards and snakes, and similar vertebrates as amphibians. This condition causes a slight to severe emotional reaction, for example anxiety, panic attacks and most commonly nausea. Upon further research, I've learned that the specific fear of lizards is called Scoliodentosaurophobia.

Eh well, I never had nausea, but my tears fall off everytime it scares me. E.g. Lizards, Frogs, Snakes, yesh!! All the slimy scaly creatures..gosh..><"...still, haha, I still think it's not phobia...I'm just...really afraid of it? Heh.

Well, y am I mentioning my fear of things now? Cause I just realize another thing. I'll feel uneasy being in close proximity sometimes.

Rly, sometimes. I have no idea y...it's not everytime, just sometimes. I just did that just now. The little pig was sitting beside me on the cushion, and she sits on the edge of the cushion, and I get as far away from the edge from her. I keep feeling irritated and ask her to move over...even thou I'm 10cm away from her. I just, couldn't help it, and can't stand being so close...argh..then she hits me.

That stupid pig, just ask her move over and she hit me!! Then she lash out at me. Then get in the room and bang the door. Yea, it happens a lot, n perhaps I am at fault acting like a child in the 1st place.

Still, I just ask her 2 move over a bit, and she HIT me!!! @.@

Then I was thinking, not only her, sometimes it happens with my friends as well, as long as I'm sitting on a long bench or something, I cannot stand being in such a close vicinity. I wonder y, it only happens sumtimes as I say. Weird. Mayb like the fear of heights, if u dun look down, ther's nth 2 be afraid of, so if I dun look at them. I'll be alright, isn't it? Hmm, hope so. ^^

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By Sicreci

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:Charisma:

Something I think not many have it in them. A few of which comes naturally, you don't need training and sorts. It just feels like their instinct, intuition, someone they had it in them. Something I pretty much lack of.

Charisma (Greek "kharisma," meaning "gift," "of/from/favored by God/the divine") is a trait found in persons whose personalities are characterized by a personal charm and magnetism (attractiveness), along with innate and powerfully sophisticated abilities of interpersonalcommunication and persuasion. One who is charismatic is said to be capable of using their personal being, rather than just speech or logicalone, to interface with other human beings in a personal and direct manner, and effectively communicate an argument or concept to them.

Another reason why being a teacher isn't for me. I've acknowledged that if there's one thing that is standing in my way of achieving more is the fact that I'm a coward. That I couldn't find the courage to do those things. I'm afraid. And I don't know how to overcome the fear. Like phobia, fear is simply the mind playing tricks on us. It's really more psychological than anything else. If you learn to face it. You'll find there's really nothing to be afraid of. Yet I don't even have the courage to face it, further more deal with it. I wonder if it'll ever change. I hate to face reality, but that's just life isn't it so?

I notice some of my friends that didn't do quite well in their studies, yet they have some kind of charm in them, when it comes to interacting, be it the kids, or the adults. Kids are pretty much easier subjects to deal with in compared to adults, by using the right method, right attitude. Yet I don't have that kind of ability, to make a child smile because of me, sometimes I can, but that's only sometimes, after awhile, they get bored with me, maybe because I get bored of them. I don't know. Probably.

I've always been the kid that gets bored after awhile. Most of the stuff I learn, I learn halfway then stop, that's it. Taekwondo, piano, guitar, swimming, well, technically, I never had the tendency to continue learning something. I always quit after awhile. One will say because of the lack of interest, but is it really? That it's just not what fits me? That I haven't find the very thing that keeps me interested? Or am I just one who couldn't end the things she started?

To cause a fire, and do nothing to extinguish it. Seems I do that a lot. There are times when me being rational doesn't help when people are being irrational. My rationality sometimes cause more hurt than heal for them. What do we live for? Exactly? Everyone of anyone must have ask this countless times. Some find the answers in their lover's eyes. Some find more questions as they go through life. Live, and eventually die, and for what purpose exactly? And if there's such a thing as heaven, I wonder what we do there? To live eternally, and never dies? And lead a peaceful and happy life? If that's so, a never ending world, will one be happy forever?

There are so many questions in this world. That human couldn't discover. And I doubt they will even as they perished in the fire. And for that I trust there really exist a higher being than us. Yet rebellious like the teenagers, many choose to disobey. And then we wait, the day the earth comes to an end.

And while that have yet to happened, we ought to continue living the lives like everyone else. Like how we're suppose to. Because it's always been that way. And always will be. Live, Love, Die. If Life is a gift. Than Love is something even more Priceless than that.

I know I know, strayed away from the topic again didn't I? Well, it happens a lot. Now then, if you would excuse me. I will continue to do the things I do being confined in the bricks of walls. =)

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By Sicreci

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Obscene:Craziness

1st thing 1st, regarding the title, I'm talking about a Japanese movie that has recently premiered in Malaysia. Titled Kaiji. Just finish watching it on my com. Adapted from a manga @ "Ultimate Survivor Kaiji".

It shows a set of people that is preposterous and ludicrous that makes the whole sekai[world] seems so absurd to be lived in. There's the under ground world that people either don't see or choose not to see. The world is just the same. There are predators and preys, the weak feeds on the rich like parasites. There are the ones that benefits each other with their existence, other wise known as commercialism.

There's a truth in everything, a truth in the movie, that there is such people out there. That don't care about other people's life. To them human are just mere chess pieces. That is there to protect the king. Most of the times meaning themselves. The pawns mean nth to them. It's rare that a pawn ever gets to kill the king. Usually it is the queen that kills the king. I'll say there's pretty much 1 out of 100 game that a pawn be able to kill the king. Yet there's still a possibility, when you counter attack with wise strategies.

Everything in this world has its opposites. There's the good and the bad, the wise and the fool, the angel and the devil, fire and water. All of which exist back to back against one another.

When I watch Japanese animes, movies or dramas, I see a set of different kinds of people. In their world, there's just a varied of people. For someone to be able to think of such picture, for sure there is someone like that as well. Sometimes I just feel so sadden by what's happening outside in the real world. And most of the times, afraid of going into the real world. Human scares me. In contrary to all the horror stories that shows ghost going around killing people, I'll say the horror is more in the real world. Where it is the people that is killing one another.

It's funny, I wonder, if there's ever anyone killed by a ghost in this world except having left delusional, sometimes because of their guilt conscience, which I do wonder, what is it I'm really afraid of.

I don't mean to disrespect the japanese or anything, but right till this moment, to this day that we live in, it's pathetic for such Seppuku & Harakiri, both infamous ritual suicides to occur. Suicide of honor they say. Yet I don't see anything proud to kill yourselves. It's a work of failure, always were always will be. A winner will get back on it's feet and seek atonement and repent for their mistakes, instead of killing themselves for being a failure. Or to put it nicely inadequate.

"Suicide has never been criminalized in Japan.^{[clarification needed]} Japanese society's attitude toward suicide has been termed "tolerant", and on many occasions a suicide is seen as a morally responsible action.^[6] However, the rise of Internet suicide websites and increasing rate ofsuicide pacts (shinjū) has raised concern from the public and media, which consider the pacts "thoughtless"^[6]."-Wikipedia

There's something wrong with that kind of mind set. I cannot comprehend the craziness that surrounds them, even if it's 1/100 of their populations. But this leads to that, and that leads to this. Eventually love is replaced by hatred. Even if it's one soul. It makes a difference in another's life. There's one quote from the movie that I actually agree. No one in this world is a failure. As long as there's a chance, you have to grab hold of it, and change the world you live in. For better or worse, you have nothing to lose. Except yourselves.

Guess that's enough for today, it just makes me think.Of which I don't really want to. There is not one night where I don't dream of a nightmare that seems so real and which freaks me out. A yume[dream] is a window to all my imaginations, I have to find the door to set myself free.

I Pray: That the World doesn't come to an End as a results of Human Actions.

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By Sicreci

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Fed:Up

Seriously find myself DIFFICULT to stay in control when the little brat in my house pisses me off. Crap. Wonder what's with all the rats and pigs, what's wrong with their GENERATION??

Have you any idea how to talk some SENSE to someone who has no COMMON SENSE?? Everytime I "tegur" her, she either IGNORE me or SHOUT back at me, it's so irritating yet it just makes me BLOW up everytime she does STUPID things!! Argh, rly can drive me CRAZY~!!!

It rly gets on my nerves. I need a BREAK, from her. I just don't get it. Don't get her at all. No wonder he maths sux. That's what I told her. Y do you want to create a lose-lose situation when you could have create a win-win situation? In the end, I boh song, she boh song, dua2 sakit hati, kan CEKIK DARAH?? Ish.

Neway, u might ask me the same q, the thg is, it's nt about winning of losing 2 me!!! I'm trying 2 get her to understand that she rly needs to fix that ACT BIG but THINK SMALL attitude!! She's not only the way she is with me but evryone else and even my mum!! And I can't even scold her KURANG AJAR bcoz it wud make me the same!! I'm frust frust frust. I cannot call her NUTZ bcoz we share the same blood. So wth can I rly do to make that girl come to her senses??

My guess is. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING unless she SNAPS herself out of it. Like my mum said, u noe her attitude mmg like that, talk 2 her oso no point. So wot 4 make sendiri susah hati rite? Here's the thg, bcoz like my mum wud say me, it's for my own good, most of the times. And when we say her, it's oso for her own GOOD!! But she does not get it!!

For a person who uses the computers 12 hours a day, will it be wrong for me to say that she's addicted to that STUPID BOX?? Seriously, she doesn't blv me, n nobody takes me serious anyway. ><"...n do you have any idea that in CHINA they ACTUALLY throw these kinda kids into a REHAB??? SERIOUSLY...=.=

Here's something I googled:
In spite of the variety of activities that can be considered addictive, people who engage in them tend to have certain attitudes and types of behavior in common. An addiction is generally associated with relieving anxiety or blocking out other types of uncomfortable feelings. To a greater or lesser extent, people engaged in addictive behavior tend to plan their lives around it; in extreme cases they will do almost anything to obtain the substance or engage in the behavior. The addiction makes them neglect other areas of their lives. They are commonly secretive about it, either out of shame or to protect their access to a substance. When confronted, they generally deny that they have a problem, although privately they regret their addictive behavior, which in many cases they have tried without success to discontinue. They tend to rationalize engaging in the behavior and tell themselves they can stop whenever they want. They may also blame others for their addiction and often experience frequent and uncontrollable mood swings.

U c? However remorse she may feel. She cannot actually fix it, bcoz they are alwiz in denial. Sigh. Pardon me. I have no idea what else can I do except to be patience, and hope that in times she actually grows up instead of get even more IMMATURE!!! Yikez~!

And I know I wrote a similar post 2 this in the previous. The problem juz got worse. Heck. If only the psychology girl in my hse noe how 2 cure her. [Which as she said, it's not in her field of studies, not her expertise]...[You'll need to find a child psychologist/psychologist for this one]...lol...

PS: I Love You.[Despite all the times I Hate You] J

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By Sicreci

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:Ants:

About the topic. I guess the smart little creatures that lurks around the corners of the house deserves some credit for this. Duh. Why not? I find them to be particularly intelligent, and this question comes to me:
"Do ants have brains?"

I googled the question, and look what I found!! Can you imagine that there's actually such complex system in a body of a tiny creature?!!! Gosh, they could really work on nano tech starting from opening up an ant. Which is kinda? So tiny you can't even see inside of it? Lol. Here are some of the interesting facts.

Ant brains are largest amongst insects. An ant's brain may have the same processing power as a Macintosh II computer. Thousands of years ago, King Solomon wrote: "Go to the ant, consider its ways and be wise".
The average life expectancy of an ant is 45-60 days.
Adult ants cannot chew and swallow solid food. They rely on juice which they squeeze from pieces of food.
The abdomen of the ant contains two stomachs. One stomach holds the food for itself and second stomach is for food to be shared with other ants. There are over 10000 known species of ants.

I'm not gonna blabber about the rest here. I might have bored you already. But if you need to know more. You can check it out here.

2nd question that I happened to notice ppl asking.
"Do ants have hearts?"
Here's the answer:
Yes, ants do have hearts. Their heart is a long tube that pumps colorless blood from the head back to the rear and back up again.
Colourless blood??? Gosh, no wonder there's no colour coming out from them when we smash them, but you'll feel err when you pinch an ant. Eventhou it's juz a tinge. That's y I dun kill ants with my bare hands. Bcoz it's juz err...lol...

Neway, I notice them to be very smart bcoz my hse is constantly invaded by ants!! Black and Red ants alike. Don't know about white thou. Had never seen one. Lol.

What makes me think they are SMART:
1# If you put a sweet thing infront of you and STARE at it the whole time, THE ANTS would not come. Sth I've realized. Just when you shift your attention to sth else and tada~!~!! They are chewing on the food already. They're like cunning creatures alwiz sneaking around yet when they get caught they just IGNORE you. Duh. Bcoz they had been engrossed in their delicacy of the day and by that time they don't even bother getting caught. LOL.

2# If you see ONE ant at a place. SMASH it already!!! Or within a few minutes, he'll report back to his headquarters and they'll be hundred and the sum just adds on within a few hours. So yea. It's like an army of ants. In case you don't know, ants are nothing close to SELFISH creatures. Something we should look up from them, even thou they're the ones looking up at us LITERALLY. When they find food, they either inform the rest, or drag the food back to the nest. They practically do not consume by themselves. Unless the hunger is killing them? Haha. Anyway, that's what I've notice.

3# They know how to pierce through wrappers, and I have no idea how they did it. Which brings me to this question. "Do ants have teeth?"

From the various source I sought from. No, they do not have teeth but sth else that could help them penetrate thru their food and which comes in handy chewing on wrappers. Lol.

Haha, I guess it's enuf wif the ants. Neway, my fav ant movie must be "A Bug's Life", a 1998 animation!! I love that movie..haha..xD...ring a bell? =P

PS: I Love You. J[Not the ants ofcoz..=P]

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