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Fallen Leaves

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:金钱在做怪:

目前看了三集【小公主】,是日本连续剧。
















故事描述着一位谦虚又和谐的千金小姐,名叫莎拉,虽然出生于华丽,却从不摆架子而善待身边的所有人。
或许难以想象世界真有其人。但我相信有。
而往往都会遭到女士们的崇拜,羡慕,甚至的妒忌
如果要说好强,一个女人的好胜跟一个男人比?
那男生也没什么胜算吧。
而我想女人跟女人比,会更有战斗力吧。

我从来就不明白,为什么女生就这么爱跟另一个女生做比较?
是女人的天性吗?
我无法否认,自己偶尔也会那样。
还是人与人之间就是这样呢?
有时候,做比较也不见得是件坏事。
因为从中提升自己,让自己做得更好,更出色。
发展就是要有战斗才能更上进不是吗?

但有时候,人们太过于重视他人的意见,他人的眼光,
看着别人比自己好而感到不服,看到别人拥有自己没能得到的而感到不满
心想为什么他偏偏这么的出色,而自己却不管再怎么努力也不被人表扬,欣赏,称赞?

答案其实很简单,因为你不是他,他再怎样那是他的事,跟你无关。
你的竞争对手从来就不是任何人,而是你自己。
连你自己都觉得不比任何人好,那么单靠那个想法就足以让你一直跟随在别人的后头。

只有相信自己,积极的呈现自己,找寻自己的潜能,
才能真正的脱颖而出。

♥ 只有弱者才需要贬低他人来提升自己的价值。而强者则是不向社会的批评低头的那位。-珊



♥ 
每个女孩子都是公主。所以,不管遇到什么事,都不能低头认输,不论何时都要挺起胸膛。-莎拉母亲



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总是想着失去的东西,是不会得到幸福的。-莎拉



因为金钱,一个人能不谈人情。人情对那种人而言并不值钱。可是人情却是钱买不到的感情。

这世间只有廉价的人才需要用金钱买到服从,用钱收买,用钱让人向你低头。

真正有实力的人,单靠自己的魅力就能够让别人尊敬,佩服,跟随他的榜样。

一切都是靠他自己的实力来说服,来证明给大家看,他真正的本事。


如果一个人讨厌你,那么你就做那个喜欢他的人,

如果一个人欺骗你,那么你就做那个相信他的人,

如果一个人
你,那么你就做那个善待他的人,

如果一个人鄙视你,那么你就做那个看好他的人。

如果一个人妒忌你,那么你就做那个羡慕他的人。


我的意识不是说别人怎么贬低你,你就向他低头。不是这样的。

看到那个我特别Highlight的字吗?

一个人可以选择做那些心中怀着讨厌,欺骗,欺负,鄙视的人。

但你却可以选择做那个心中充满喜欢,相信,善待,看好的心情对人。

妒忌羡慕只是一线之差,以其妒忌别人的好,为是么不选择羡慕呢?Do you rather be Jealous of one's success or Admire their capability and look up to them for reference? 要做那个内心丑陋还是内心美观的人,那个就由你自己来决定。


不管别人是否会对你微笑,是否会回你敬礼,那不是重点,重点是你自己会不会对人微笑,向人敬礼。So I try to make it a point while I was in school. To greet, and to smile. Even thou I kinda suck at it most of the times. 想到也可笑,我不擅长跟人打交道。So sometimes, it felt like the Cat got my tongue and I just got stuck. Fumbling with my words. Don't know what to say.


小学时看到老师就敬礼,老师进教室,就会起立行礼。It's a very polite way as to greet a person, especially a teacher. That's one thing I admire about the Japanese and Korean culture. Forget about the people that do not practice their formalities, just focus on the people that does so is enough. We should always find the Good in people instead of the Bad. It helps shape our Pure Mind rather than Corrupted Mind.


That is why whenever we transitioned into Secondary school, we get Culture shock. Or maybe it's only me? A teacher of mine once mentioned something that despite the reality is what we all agree on. She had a point. But before that, let's talk a little about her.


She was a good teacher, a very strict one as well. She always make a point to "Tegur" us whenever we are not "Polite" enough, especially when we're "Rude". You have to greet her before you open your mouth and say something. I think most of us "Kena" say by her before, even the Ketua. Haha, but she remained the teacher that we all Respect. 


This is what she said, it's been years, so I'll say it with my own interpretation.

"It doesn't matter whether or not a teacher will reply your greeting whenever you greet them. What's important is that you greet them.那是基本礼貌。I know some teachers don't greet the students back, but you have to be the student that shows Respect to the teachers no matter what."


It's true you know? Not all teachers will smile at you, well, you'll see some showing us sour face[Student-Teacher always have this Prejudice against each other, lol]. And some wouldn't even be bothered when we greet them, there is that kind of tcher ok? U ingat apa? Itu cikgu bukan manusia ar? Nobody says EVERY teacher is Good. Of course not every student is too.


Quote: If you can keep your heads high despite being look down on, you are at a place higher than the one that look down on you. 


PS: It's your choice isn't it? It's my choice to be Better. Despite anything that May come my Way, I'm Alive and that is my Ticket to make a Change.


That reminds me of the song~ One way ticket...
One way ticket, one way ticket to the blues. Haha, even the kids will be able to sing it.

3 Responses so far.

  1. Anonymous says:

    hmm..jane de mandarin rly improve a lot wor..haha..anyway,xian like jane wrote that money kenot buy anythg rather jane said b4,mayb if no money,sumone will nt happy..haha..

  2. +Wot I meant is...
    +Got LOTS of money not necessary will Happy. But Langsung no money sure won't happy. I'm still sticking with that.

  3. Anonymous says:

    +okie..bt it rly cant imagine if we langsung no money..i noe in de world mayb got tis kind of ppl..jz feel pity for them..then jane mz hargai lor..hehe..=)