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+幸福的解脱..::..Loving Without Attachment

>>Wrote this d day bfor yesterday, directed esp 2 sum1, due 2 connection pro, oni able 2 post it 2day, so i'm changing my on9 time on the weekends to 11am..

+Dun rly noe wot is ther 2say, except that my fren juz ask me...
+要怎么安慰一个正在绝望与伤心的女孩?
+At 1st I chuak, coz my other fren tgh emo rite now, I thought he was talking about her...
+Apparently not...hyez...
+I oso duno ler, like I said, no one can help you unless you want us to help...
+如果你不伸出你的手, 别人再怎么努力, 也只能无能为力...
+, 不管你想不想让自己好过一点...
+问题不是在于你想不想, 也不是在于你能不能, 而是在于你要不要...
+愿不愿意踏出第一...
 
+很多人在沮丧的时候, 都会, 办不到...
+是真的没办法, 还是不肯去想办法, 也不肯去接受那已经于是无补的事实??
+可惜? 爱情里, 没有可不可惜的, 让你幸福的, 才是最实际的...
+不管是回, 还是本人, 重要的是, 你要懂得, 爱一个人, 应该是痛苦的...
+如果你爱的人, 都没办法保护着你的眼泪不让它流下, , 为何还要耿耿于怀呢?
+我再重新表明我的观念...
+不是别人不明白, 而是你自己不明白...
+你到底追求的是什? 爱情, 还是他?
+如果是, , 为何不把他放了, 去追求另一个真?
+可是, , 你已经分不清了, 一直认为自己是爱他的...
+那真的是爱吗? 不是的, 对我来说, 那只不过是执着...

心是肉做的,跳得太强, 难恢复原装。

人是肉做的,爱到某个程度,占有欲就开始做主。-无名
 
+既然决定爱一个人,为什么还三翻四次的喊痛呢?
+不是我觉得心烦, 而是你让我感到很无奈...
+我不介意你伤心的时候找我, 更不介意借个肩膀给你依靠...
+可是, 你需要的, 不是我的陪伴, 而是他的拥抱吧?
+爱情是美丽的, 别让自己的占有欲万胜那最真实的情感...
+开,让自己重生,也放他自由...

The Bird Cage is not lock...
 
All you need to do is fly away and set yourself free...
 
+对不起, 我只能说, 爱不起你...
+不管当中你们之间发生了什么事...
+我也没必要去懂什么事来判断...
+在我看来, 这已经不是愿不愿意, 也不是值不值得的问题了...
+而是他让你的眼泪流的次数多过他让你微笑一百倍...
+说的没错吧?自己想想吧...
+最后一次他真正让你幸福的时候是几时?
+还记得吗?就算记得,也只是一片模糊的视线吧?
+可是眼泪却依然不停的流着...
+醒醒吧,爱中的女人都是愚蠢的,都是盲目的,都不理智的...
+我知道,因为我也当过那种"女人"...
+所以,我告诉自己,不能再当那种"女人"...
+也要阻此别人当那种脆弱的女人...
+阿叔也说过,只要相信自己不是那种女人,就不会是...
+我相信自己,也相信你,那么,你相信自己吗?
+朋友,把你左边的手伸出来吧,同时也把你右边的手放了吧...
+我只能希望,你能爱自己多过爱任何人,不要再折磨自己了...

"The pain will go away, but the beautiful moments stay on forever..."---败犬女王


P.S.:幸福的解脱,定义就是要你解脱自己,来换取另一个幸福...


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9 Responses so far.

  1. haha..i don't know what else to say oso,u basically had said everything i wanna say..erm..good to have a new post, it's been a while..hehe^^

  2. Nice Shot ~!By the way,are you talking about Pinkish ?
    If I got it right, plz take care of her, she always tell me that she dont hv friend, not even one...
    I hope you are the one ^^

    TQ

  3. >>Solo:
    +Honestly, ther're many who r willing 2 be ther 4 her, I 4 one will nt leave my fren, even thou up 2 now she stil refuses 2 confine 2 me, well, ther's nth I can do, I rly duno y she feels that way, when she refuses 2 let us in, like i said, she keep herself in d cage, nt getting out, nt letting us in either...
    +Sigh, if oni she thks the same, all I can hope is she snap out of her reverie asap, n cum 2 realize that the world is a better place wif 10 ppl loving u, instead of that oni 1, that instead being d one making u happy, makes u sad...
    +This is d problem wif girls isn't it? Alwiz 2 focus on that one person, that they 4get about the rest, I seriously dun get this concept, we came 2 this world alone, many givs us d strength 2 move on, but instead they tend 2 lose strength bcoz of that sum1?? Seriously...

  4. Anonymous says:

    正如jane所说,身边有许多关心你的人,我们没有必要为了一个人而伤心难过,因为还有许多关心支持你的人..在我们生活当中,有90%的事情是好的,只有少数是不好的..如果你想让自己过得快乐一些,就应该把注意放在这些好事上,而不是那些坏事上..那些不如意的事情,都只是你人生的一部分,千万不要让它变成人生的全部,也别让一小片乌云遮住了所有的阳光..
    二又贝

  5. +贤,是你吗?应该也是啦,只有你会在留言写Jane罢了..哈哈..你留言的时候就不会写名吗? 真是的..二又贝是什么叻??

  6. Anonymous says:

    haha..二又贝是匿名咯..迟些跟jane解释原因咯..

  7. All we can do is just wait lo-.-"
    I hope she is learning and grow up...

  8. +Yea..I hope the same...

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