Live it Right

Life is about making Something out of Nothing at all. If you're able to do that, you're able to do Everything.

Painted Life

Life is like a flower, painted to perfection, yet at the end it wilts, fragile as it is, only the stem left unbroken.

Fallen Leaves

Like the autumn leaves, we fall at times, only to find ourselves blown away by the wind, and thus we reach yet another place.

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个人观念

闷,明天考作文,
现在,不知该读什么好,
希望我会写吧,
叫我篇故事还行,
叫我写论文嘛。
那倒是,有点难度的说。><"

好怕,英文对我来说,
都希望能考好,
特别有种不满自己的英文,
就是不甘愿,
觉得自己写得很好的同时,
还是觉得自己写得不够好?!
这怎么说呢?
就比如,我很满意自己的作品,
但从正确的写作方式来看,
我是否能达到一定的水准呢?!
><"...aiyo...

反正,其实我上来这,
不是要谈那个啦,
还是说明一下那个题目,
“所谓,个人的观点” 都因人而异,
人生本来就要像味道一样去品尝,
酸甜苦辣,
在我们成长的过程中,
都会遇到,
不忘了,咸,谈,点点的滋味。

因为某些人,
我却领悟到了,
做人,真的要学会,
宽容大度,懂得包容,
懂得释怀,也懂得谦虚,
这世上,应该,不多人能做到所谓的境界吧。

以我的个人观念,
我们可以想做一些人,
可是心态问题,
有点难度,
或许我这么说,
假如,
你想着,做慈善,
是因为,想上天堂,
这个心态其实,并不太好,
因为这说明,
你要求回报,
可是,很多时候,
你并不是这么认为,
只是自己心态自然而然会联想到,
把慈善和回报连在一起。
我们,总是,
在跟自己挣扎,
能让我们失去控制的,
没有别人,
只有自己,
我还真的是,
要学会调整一下自己的心态,
改善一下,自己的情绪。

我不是神,
我只是人,
好心,也要用在对的人,的身上,
有时候,好心,反而,害人害己。
+Life is all about seeing the world from a kaleidoscope, each of us see things differently, each of us percepts things our way.

珊,上。

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Sad Case

After reading what seems to be directed to me, I must say, it's pretty amazing, how someone can get mad at me, just for the "unfriendly comment" that I leave, as the person deem so, sigh, reality is hard, ppl, can be harsh, I know that, but, it makes me sad, deep down, really. 

Not because of the way that someone was mad at me, but rather the way someone deals with a small matter so “小题大作”,it's okay, I learn from my own mistakes, I learn from ppl's mistake. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, I mean, well, hell hath no fury like any woman judged. Almost the same thing, never mess with a woman, that is why I like guys more, even as a girl, I don't rly like my own attitude, I know so, I admit so.

Anyway, if my comment offended anybody that I'm a frequent visitor to their blog, do let me know, you don't want me to comment, I stop commenting. It's hard you know? Trying to convince myself, that ppl can be better, that I myself can be better. It's really hard to believe, I wonder if I will stop believing, there are ppl who will actually get better, and there's actually a better person. That is “宽容大度”.

Nic, I gotto say, thanks for being my friend, I think I ought to stop "busy body" about ppl's life, since it makes no difference, the comments I leave them, and it actually makes them angry, that's not good rite? Step back, I'll learn to survive. That is why I'm so afraid of the real world, real ppl makes me scare, it's okay, they don't know me, they can judge me all they want. 我对得起自己的良心,我问心无愧,也许大家总是认为我的自以为是,可是我知道,不都是这样,我还需要成长,还需要成熟,可是我想,我还是要保留着小朋友的心态,今天难过,明天就忘了。

我只能说,我的出发点是好的,别人要说我什么,那是他们的自由,我不会生气,我已经习惯了,我只知道,没有人可以让你生气,佛说:“让自己生气的是自己而非别人。在别人伤害了你的时候,不要企图去报复。你放过了别人,也就放过了你自己。所以我们要善用智慧,不要总是用记忆来修理自己。每个人的角色不同、看法也不同,我们只要用包容的心来看待事情,也许就不会那么痛苦了。”
Sincerely, Enaj.

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Ought to zip it. =|

Hmm, I just realize something in me,
Perhaps it's good, perhaps it's bad,
It really depends how you see it,
As usual,
I always ended up making someone piss at me,
Not the first time, ain't gonna be the last,
But for the first time,
I wasn't pissed that those people are pissed at me,
Weird thing har?

I've learned sth actually,
Ppl who says I'm judgmental, sarcastic, or prejudice and etc.
It doesn't really matter.
Nobody will actually come out and say,
They are not either one of the above.
Who dares say so anyway?
I'm sure each of us will be one of those at times,
And when somebody thinks you're judging them,
Honestly, they're judging you as well,
Don't you think so?
That's what I think, anyway.

I guess, being friendly, or giving friendly advice,
Still doesn't work with me,
As I end up always being seen as the unfriendly person.
Sigh, so to say,
I'm not trying to defend myself or prove a point,
But, before you think someone else is judging you,
Perhaps you should check and see if you're doing so yourself.

So long then. 

Sincerely, Enaj.